Some people think that the person who has the Tao is the immortal in the Taoist legend, at least the person who is bearish on fame and fortune, and who is light and windy.

In fact, the Tao exists in the hearts of everyone, only need to polish their own mind, you can see.

Do you want to find yourself?

Those who have the right way do not necessarily live in the mountains. On the contrary, really powerful people are hidden in the crowd. The small faintness is hidden in the wild, and the middle is hidden in the city.

A mortal, to break through the three realms, can reach inaction and become a winner.

Chapter 37 of the Tao Te Ching, Lao Tzu said:

"Does often do nothing, but all things are done. If Hou Wang can keep it, everything will be self-contained. If you want to do it, I will use the nameless simplicity of the town. The nameless Pak, the husband will have no desire. If you don't want to be quiet, the world will set."

The Taoist said that it is a shun, and a rebellion.

To practice the Tao, you must go against it. Therefore, we have to look down on Laozi’s words.

The first realm: fixed.

Taoism said that life comes to this world, like a tree without roots, in the vast sea of people, with the flow of people, rootless people, can not hold, life wandering, the spirit is not comfortable.

For most people, it is impossible to control themselves.

Some people made up their minds to change the status quo. As a result, the next day the alarm clock rang and they couldn’t get up, or they couldn’t take the first step; some people shouted to lose weight every day, but they couldn’t help but eat food; some people Obviously know that a relationship is not suitable, but can not make up his mind, choose to leave...

Most of the people in life are out of control.

Only a few people who can control themselves and be self-disciplined will become strong people in life and become leaders in various fields.

Set yourself, in addition to willpower, but also methods, step by step.

The contest between man and out of control is an energy struggle.

For example, 30% of people and 70% of out of control, no doubt, people are out of control.

However, people have an advantage that can inspire unlimited potential little by little.

Next time, people accounted for 31%, and out of control accounted for 69%;

Next time, people accounted for 35% and lost control accounted for 65%;

Next time, people accounted for 40%, and out of control accounted for 60%;

......

As time goes by, people can get back to the situation little by little.

51% of people, 49% out of control;

This situation will be reversed and people will take the initiative.

90% of people, 10% out of control; people can control themselves steadily.

This is the "fixed" approach.

A person can be fixed and can control himself. In fact, he is recovering and holding his own energy from the outside world. That is all.

The second realm: static.

Lao Tzu said: "If you don't want to be quiet, the world will be self-determined."

If people can control themselves and can settle, then naturally, they will calm down.

Some people want to read a book, but they are very impetuous and can't calm down. Some people are restless, but it is difficult to adjust their interest. Many people can move, but those who can calm down need to be determined.

"Qing Jing Jing" said: "The god is clear, and the heart disturbs; the heart is quiet, but wants to hold it. Often can send their desires, and the heart is quiet; clear its heart, and God self-clean."

When a person wants to calm down completely, he must first remove desires and mourning. Every day, he will wake up and have some voices in his mind. Let you do something and think about something. This is mourning.

Get up, you get up; do things, pick it up and do it. When you really do, you don't think about it. There is no practical action, only thinking in the mind, that is mourning.

It is the basis of calmness to develop a habit of words and deeds and improve mobility.

The third realm: desire.

Controlling desire is the most difficult thing for human beings to do.

In fact, the more control you desire, the stronger it is. Desire can't be controlled, only to adjust.

It is a natural thing to adjust your desires.

Before the author, it was a shopaholic, but also a foodie. When working at a high pressure, he relied on buying things to decompress and find something to eat and eat. I believe that most people are like this.

Later, after seven years of calm and dedication, the desire gradually subsided.

It can be said that the deeper your efforts are, the more you will not be able to live, the more you will enter the path, and the inaction will be achieved. Conversely, the worse your hard work will be, the desire will turn around and make people become impetuous.

The above three realms are actually the relationship of the Trinity. You can do one of them, and the others will affect each other. Returning to a basic point is two words: quiet.

"Qing Jing Jing" said: "If you want to neither live, you are really quiet. It is true that you should always be a good person; you should always be quiet, always quiet and quiet."

A person who can be quiet can do nothing.

Modern people, the understanding of inaction, is often biased.

Wang Wei, the representative of the metaphysics of Wei and Jin Dynasties, his interpretation of Laozi is more appropriate. "There is often no way to do it."

Therefore, inaction, not doing nothing, but letting it go.

Let it be, what is it to do, what to do.

If you do things, you will do things; if you endure hardships, you will suffer; if you enjoy your happiness, you will enjoy it; if you are sick, you will be unlucky; if you are sick, you will get sick; if you are alive, you will be alive; if you are alive, you will die...

From this, it can be seen that it is very simple to say, naturally, almost no one can truly go with the flow, so can't get it.

The simplest and the most difficult; the greatest and the most ordinary.